My thoughts do create my reality (and it's not always good)
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
I do believe that our thoughts create our reality. For me, I usually try to make my thoughts positive in order to ensure a more positive outcome. Last night when I was tired, I forgot that negative thoughts creative negative outcomes. Today I was clearly reminded that they do.
What time does it hurt?
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
What I did not understand then but am grateful I understand now is that these warning lights - the fatigue and the food cravings - were my body's way of telling me that I was out of balance. I did not recognize these signals for what they were: an opportunity to help myself find a healthier way to bring my body into balance.
Dr. Nan Lu explains it this way in his book Traditional Chinese Medicine - A Natural Guide to Weight Loss that Lasts: "TCM theory states that Universal Qi changes every two hours. The Qi in your organs also changes every two hours. Like a giant gear, if your body's Qi cannot match or mesh with Universal Qi changes, then many different kinds of physical discomforts will develop. TCM recognizes these conditions as biorhythm disorders. For example, Qi changes start with the lung, which is "on duty" or in charge of the body, from 3 - 5 am. If your lung's Qi has a prob em, then you might find yourself waking up during this two-hour window. Or, you might wake up with a physical problem like a cough during these hours." (p. 71)
These are the two-hour blocks of time when each organ's Qi is in charge.
Lung 3 - 5 am
Large Intestine 5 - 7am
Stomach 7 - 9am
Spleen 9 - 11 am
Heart 11 am - 1 pm
Small Intestine 1 - 3 pm
Bladder 3 - 5 pm
Kidney 5 - 7 pm
Pericardium 7 - 9 pm
Triple Burner 9 - 11 pm
Gall Bladder 11 pm - 1 am
Liver 1 - 3 am
Now that I know this, I understand why I am sleepy after lunch. Instead of having an afternoon nap, I realize my body needs Qi to feel balanced and my time would be better spent practicing Qigong. I can also do the same when I feel a food craving hit me. I realize now that the signal my body is sending me is to increase my Qi. Whenever I do, I feel so much better. I am not fatigued and I don't crave anything. What a great change this is for me!! I love Qigong.
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Balance is a good thing
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
One of the foundational tenants of Traditional Chinese Medicine is the idea of balance. TCM believes that our bodies work better when they are in balance and harmony. The purpose of The Dragon's Way program is to use Wu Ming Qigong to cultivate Qi and facilitate its even flow throughout the body, thus bringing the body back into a state of balance and harmony. Once this happens, the body's self-healing mechanisms can function optimally allowing for weight to be lost, a full night's sleep restored, peace and calm to become the norm.
The value of maintaining balance isn't difficult for us to understand. Our empirical understanding of balance began when as infants we tried to sit and later attempted to stand. As toddlers, walking was all about balance, as it was when we learned to ride a bike. Sitting, standing, walking and riding a bike all were accomplished when we could find the point of balance and had the strength to maintain that balance.
As teenagers, finding an emotional balance became the challenge. With hormones raging for both girls and boys, often times the swing from happy to sad to melancholy to jubilant was pronounced and noticeable. Our college years gave us further opportunity to be imbalanced as we exercised our new found freedom to make choices about how much we slept, ate, exercised, studied and played. Certainly collegiate success depending upon finding a balance.
As adults, perhaps balance has become all together illusive as we rush from one busy thing to the next doing all our 'have to dos' and 'should dos'. The expectations we place upon ourselves to be 'super' in everything we do often leaves us emotionally, physically, spiritually and mentally spent. Without a doubt, we are living our lives completely out of balance but don't know to live any differently. Imbalance is all we know.
What can we do differently? Slow down, for one thing. I know, it is a difficult concept to fathom when we find great accomplishment and, often times, our self-esteem when we are being productive and being seen to be such. Breathe, for another. Yes, a slow deep relaxing breath. In his book The Healer Within, Dr. Roger Jahnke describes how to take the 'essential breath' which will immediately help to activate the self-healing mechanisms of our body:
"It is typical for people to become accustomed to breathing in a shallow way. While our typical breathing allows for survival, it does not increase vitality or accelerate healing.
"First, adjust your posture so that your lungs, as well as your chest and abdomen, can expand freely. This is best accomplished by standing or sitting erect. You may also do this practice lying down. Breathe in through the nose, filling the lower portion of the lungs first. This will cause your abdomen to expand as the diaphragm drops down and compresses the internal organs. Then allow the upper lobes of your lungs to fill. This expands the ribs and chest cavity. You will feel a tremendous sense of satisfaction when your lungs are completely full. Then exhale slowly through the nose. Repeat."
In his book Traditional Chinese Medicine: A Natural Guide to Weight Loss That Lasts, Dr. Nan Lu suggests that sitting quietly and gently breathing can go a long way to alleviating stress and imbalance in our busy lives.
"Start your day at work by sitting quietly with your eyes closed for two to five minutes before you do anything. If you become nervous or stressed, take two to five minutes again to do the same thing. Just sit quietly with your eyes closed. Notice the difference this simple action makes."
Deciding to quiet your mind using the abdominal breath and closed eyes can become a habit when you plan for it in your daily routine. Consider taking two minutes to do so when you get into your car to drive to work or pull into your parking stall when you arrive at the office, before you turn on the computer, when you sit down to eat your lunch, or before your brush your teeth at night. Dr Lu calls this 'stealing some time for yourself'. Give yourself permission to step back from the abyss of stress that is trying to pull you under and keeping you imbalanced. Choose balance. Choose to slow down and breathe.
How does this apply to me? With five children at home and a busy family life, I find maintaining a balance in my life to requires concerted effort. Practicing Qigong daily helps me a great deal to feel clear headed and energetic, optimistic and even tempered. Slow, relaxed breathing is something I am trying to incorporate into my daily routine, whenever I remember, so I can utilize the breath to relax, refocus and maintain the flow of Qi.
In regards to this blog, I am finally feeling balanced enough in my life to start posting regularly. It just isn't something that has felt do-able for a long time. I hope I can share things I have learned that will help you find greater balance and thereby health and happiness in your life. My goals is to also invite guest bloggers to share their perspective on gentle healing. Please feel free to comment and lend your perspective to the conversation. There is much we can learn from each other.
Peace to you,
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Join The Dragon's Way Family
Thursday, August 11, 2011
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Monday, April 25, 2011
Creamy Carrot Ginger Soup
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Eating for healing can happen in every delicious bite when we choose the best quality ingredients. I particularly enjoyed the flavor of this Creamy Carrot Ginger Soup last night. Carrots, which have a neutral thermal nature, strengthen the lungs and spleen, improve liver function and act as a diuretic. Ginger, which is considered by Traditional Chinese Medicine to be one of the most powerful foods for healing, has a warm thermal nature making it ideal for helping the body to rid itself of cold conditions in the body.
Dr. Nan Lu says: "Too much internal cold can also slow down the movement of Qi. Think of what cold does. It causes things to constrict, or congeal. With that in mind, it is useful to know that ginger relieves digestive problems, helps liver Qi flow smoothly, and warms the lung."
I hope you will enjoy this delicious healing soup!
In a Dutch oven, saute onion, carrots and potatoes in sesame oil until tender. Add ginger and chicken broth. Cover and cook over medium heat for 12 – 20 minutes. Cool for 15 minutes. Transfer to a blender or food processor in small batches; cover and process until smooth. Return all to the pan; stir in the Rice Dream, rosemary, salt and pepper. Cook over low heat until heated through.
Lu, N. (2000) Traditional Chinese Medicine: A Natural Guide to Weight Loss That Lasts. New York: Harper Collins Publishers.
Pitchford, P. (2002) Healing With Whole Foods: Asian Traditions and Modern Nutrition. California: North Atlantic Books.
I Can't Live Without My Walnuts
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
This is what Dr. Nan Lu says about WALNUTS in his book Traditional Chinese Medicine: A Natural Guide to Weight Loss That Lasts:
"WALNUTS are one of the most powerful foods that you can eat whether you are participating in The Dragon's Way or not. WALNUTS, like Chinese red dates, are used in Traditional Chinese Medicine as herbs as well as in foods. Their essence is warm, and they are so healing for the kidney and the large intestine. They can also help with lung problems and constipation, but are especially regarded in Traditional Chinese Medicine for their ability to strengthen and increase kidney Qi, as well as improve memory."
How to Toast Walnuts
In order to warm the essence of the WALNUTS and to eliminate any parasites in the raw walnuts, it is important to first toast them.
To do so, spread the raw walnuts in a single layer on a cookie sheet and put them in a 325 degree F oven. Bake for 15 minutes. Store in a covered container and enjoy!!
I think toasted WALNUTS taste terrific and are a fabulously convenient healing food. I hope you will give them a try. Read more...
New Dragon's Way Class Starts on March 4, 2011
Saturday, February 26, 2011
I Love Winter
Friday, February 25, 2011
LET IT GO!!!
Friday, February 18, 2011
In our Dragon's Way class this week, we discussed how important it is to LET IT GO when we desire to heal our bodies. Too often we hang onto hurt feelings, resentments, regrets, worries, self-doubt, self-criticism and so many other destructive emotions. When we do, we bring further imbalance to our bodies which further exacerbates those negative emotions. It is imperative that we LET IT GO by forgiving ourselves, those who may have hurt us intentionally or unintentionally, or painful experiences from our past. When we do, we are better able to love others, to love ourselves and to feel the peace that we were meant to experience in this life.
Said another way, LET IT GO can also be DON'T LOOK BACK. DON'T LOOK BACK on the hurts and regrets of your past. Choose to begin again with a clean slate, forgiving and making peace with the pains of yesterday. Let yesterday be yesterday. Let go of the past and begin tomorrow with a fresh start.
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Your Thoughts Create Your Reality
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
In our Dragon's Way class last week, we discussed how our thoughts create our reality. If we want to change any aspect of our lives, we need to first start by changing our thoughts. I like this video of Master Lu explaining this concept.
I like this quote too...
Whatever you hold in your mind will tend to occur in your life.
Roasted Cauliflower Ginger Soup
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Cauliflower is one of the powerful healing foods described in Dr. Nan Lu's book Traditional Chinese Medicine: A Natural Guide to Weight Loss That Lasts. (It is upon this book that The Dragon's Way program is based.) Cauliflower is used by practitioners of Traditional Chinese Medicine to increase kidney Qi, encourage weight loss and to help with constipation.
We conserve Qi for healing purposes whenever we eat cooked vegetables rather than raw ones so I really like this Roasted Cauliflower Ginger Soup recipe. It is a family favorite! (This recipe is adapted from Make It Fast, Cook It Slow by Stephanie O'Dea)
Ingredients
1 head cauliflower
5 tablespoons walnut, sesame or safflower oil
1 teaspoon salt
1/2 black pepper
2 cups chicken or vegetable broth
2 cups warm water
1 diced yellow onion
1/2 teaspoon ground ginger
2 cloves minced garlic
Wash your head of cauliflower well and break into florets.
Qigong at the Bus Stop
Monday, February 14, 2011
Baby it's cold outside!
Friday, February 11, 2011
Onions
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Healing Journals
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
The best way I have found to make BIG CHANGES in my life is to stop to notice and record the little changes as they occur. As I participated in The Dragon’s Way program, I wrote a Healing Journal. At times this journal was a bound notebook. Other times this journal took the form of a private Blogger blog when it was easier to punch away at my computer. Either way, a Healing Journal helped me to keep track of my thoughts, observations and experiences as I progressed in my self-healing journey.
As I was reviewing my Dragon’s Way Healing Journal, I smiled when I read this entry from back in October:
Changes? What is changing? I am changing, I know that. I am still feeling calm and, for the most part, quite collected, even during stressful times. A HUGE change for me happened on Saturday after the Halloween Trunk or Treat party. Each of the five kids came home with a large bag of candy and none of it appealed to me at all. This has never happened to me in my whole life! I have NEVER been unable to resist Halloween candy or candy (especially chocolate!) of any kind. On Saturday, my son handed me an Almond Joy, one of my favorites, and I didn't want it. It didn’t sound good to me at all. The Dragon's Way is working! All the kids offered to share their candy with me but the thought of it was unpleasant. This was SO COOL! What’s more, my appetite has evaporated and finally, for the first time, I am eating “just when I was hungry". I love Qigong!!!
Taking the time to jot down a few thoughts about how I am feeling, emotionally and physically, what foods appeal to me, what I am thinking or what I am no longer craving is a powerful healing tool that I highly recommend. Read more...